He is not a relationship material if he sends these Mixed Signals
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Perhaps the worst part of the modern dating scene is how unstable everyone is.
Relationships are no longer sacred-too many people are looking for something better, rather than stopping to evaluate and nurture what they have.
It is frustrating to get a mixed signal during dating, whether in a “nearly” or devoted relationship.
What does someone do when they are ready to be with someone and when they put their heart into them when someone seems to be saying one thing but doing another? I don’t want to spend time deciphering what it means. Relationships are difficult enough without worrying if someone wants to be with you.
I hate being the bearer of bad news, but if he’s sending one of those misleading mixed signals, he’s really not ready for a relationship.
1. He won’t let you go, but he doesn’t want to be with you.
2. Immediately after posting that hot selfie photo on Instagram, he will send you a text message. “A little stranger!” Classic.
3. He finally sends you a text three days later without a reply and apologizes, “I’m sorry, I was really busy.”
4. For 99% of the time you are with him, he is obsessed with his phone, but when you are not it takes time to reply to your text message.
5. He sends the “latest information” text at midnight but does not reply when he replies in the morning.
6. He plans with you on a regular basis but cancels shortly thereafter.
7. It’s cruelly inconsistent and pops up when it’s as random as possible. When you are fine without him, it seems he has a sixth sense, and then he crawls back soon.
8. He’s been active in The Tinder, Bumble, Lots of Fish, etc., but he doesn’t want to be part of that nonsense. He doesn’t think he needs a ridiculous dating app to sleep.
9. He only communicates with you on Snapchat or other ridiculous social media. I don’t have a phone anymore.
10. He tells me that I miss you and brags about wanting to meet again, but he’s always too busy to pull it off.
11. He behaves as if he is not interested in relationships, but no one makes you happy.
12. When he sees you getting the attention of others, he suddenly decides that he really cares about you.
13. He claims he isn’t ready for a relationship, but he pretends you’re in a relationship. So basically you pretend to be his girlfriend, but don’t claim the title of a boyfriend.
14. He’s even breathing near you, but he’s insanely jealous of someone who can be completely free to do whatever he wants. This is the highest double standard.
15. He doesn’t talk to you for days or weeks.
And at some point, he suddenly reappears and calmly plays his absence as if it weren’t a big deal. He hits you with the text “How are you?”
16. He keeps talking about his ex, hoping to evoke a jealous reaction from you.
17. Even if you haven’t started the “What are we?” Conversation, he claims that you are too enthusiastic about making things official.
18. They continue to ask you to send nudity, even though they have seen the actual deal in person.
19. He has an excuse for almost everything and everyone in the sun. It’s as if he saved them in a file behind his brain and waited for them to be used again.
20. He tells you, “I’m not looking for anything serious,” but he says it’s just enough to keep the faint light of hope on your head.
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